I would let go of the extra expense. If you’re not getting anything out of the coaching then it’s probably best to end the relationship entirely so you can move forward.
Yes it’s worth it to keep moving forward and the money you’re not spending for a couple of month can go toward outsourcing what you don’t know how to do.
Check the terms again and see what’s yours and what’s theirs. I don’t believe they own your content and that the important part. I too got into this via a coaching program but I’m happy with the price and the guidance is good…I learned more thru trial and error (a lot of error) and places like this forum tho
As far as moving to another host it’s doable. I’ve done it so if you have specific questions I can answer them.
I don’t know how the site builder works or if it locks you in to the host. Is the builder proprietary and can you just download the site and upload it elsewhere without the builder on the new host. This is the first question to answer.
If you can’t them you have to grab all of your content and build another site. Not so bad as you think since you’ve already done it. I don’t know what Xsite Pro is but if it’s a builder and your comfortable with it…marvelous.
If you’re going to move to a new host you need to do a few things in ORDER
- Back up the site to your hard drive.
- Archive any mail if you have mail accounts
- Create an ADD-ON domain at the new host which is the SAME as the one you’re using.
- Create the SAME mail accounts on the new host
- Upload the site OR BUILD the new site there
- Change the DNS: They shouldn’t own the domain and it shouldn't be "locked" to a particular host. Check to see if there is something wacky in the terms. Wherever you registered your domain is a place to MANAGE YOUR ACCOUNT. From there you should see a section to Manage Domain Names…or something like that. All you have to do is change the DNS to point to the new host.
- Give the coaching program their walking papers
- DONE
Chances are they've simply rebranded a Registrar and have branded a dedicated server for their clients at a major hosting company. So it's probably not as bad as you think but still check the terms of the coaching program.
That’s basically it. It gets more complicated if your site is dependent on other stuff like databases or scripts that are proprietary to the site builder they came from.
Good Luck
--Mike