I there a link exchange forum?

[wendy]

thankyou wgcool.

heres where i really need the advice guys,
i have a paranormal forum and as i said above i am thinking of asking similar sites or investigation sites if theyd care to share some of their stories and investigation with us.

now i read somewhere here that its better to stagger links in amongst certain posts that fit that particular catagory other than create a page full of exchangable links as the serach engines often over look this.

how would you reccomend that i approach these sites with this suggestion and how should i ask my site link to be displayed in return ?

any suggestions appreciated guys xxx