dballer, you could actually join SiteSell's free link exchange program at
http://value-exchange.sitesell.com It will help you find other webmasters that have similar sites as yours.
Just keep in mind traditional link swap exchanges are pretty useless these days. If you are going to exchange links with someone make sure you spend time working out a valuable exchange. In other words you would provide a link to them within an article that focuses on a subject that matches the topic of their site and they would do the same for you. This is much better than just being placed on a list of links on someone else's site.