Lisa,
Evidently this kind of thing happening isn't all that uncommon. I found a form to fill out for google for unwanted search results coming up. I filled it out and sent it. Not sure if I did it right however I also read something called Safe Search.
Have you heard of it?

Lisa, what is your opinion regarding if this all might have started with one of these sites getting on our journal page which is actually done on blog?
This has all been just sickening to me after working so hard on getting a nice web site up.

Let me know if you come up with anything. I do know there is a way to contact google and by this time with all that's been going on i will gladly pay for any help